I was sitting in a meeting the other day and I listened to one person
condemn another (of course the person being condemned was not in the
room) and without hesitation another person jumped on the the bandwagon
to be shortly followed by another person. It was a bit of a bloodbath.
With one small push back that maybe this wasn't a fully fair assessment
that was taking place, everyone backed down and adjusted their stance.
This interaction reminded me of how easy it is to tear someone down and
how hard it is to get people to instead build others up. We are quick
to condemn and we are fast to pass the blame and tag others for maybe
what we should be stepping up and owning ourselves.
I've found that
those who fluidly condemn others are not the same people who take
accountability and accept their lumps when they should. These are also
the same people who others either fear or even avoid because they worry
that whatever is being said about others is also said about them when
they leave the room.
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